I can accept responsibility or I can place blame but I can't do both is a phrase I've heard many times over the years. A new way for me to take more responsibility is to find 3 people who know and love me. I will ask each one "what major area of my life do I need to work on." I will not argue and I will not place blame. I will simply accept responsibility.
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